At age 78, I have lived a complete life.
 I have loved and been loved.
 My children are grown and in the midst of their own rich lives.
 I have seen my grandchildren born and beginning their lives.
 I have pursued my life's projects and
 made the most significant contributions I will make.
 Though today I have no severe mental or physical limitations,
 I should have no regrets were my world to end suddenly.
 (adapted from Ezekiel Emanuel.)

 I have no fear of death. I, Jon, suffered worse than death
 with the loss of my son, Jos, 1974-99.